Guys don't like dating generally. It is just a necessary evil they have to go through to get a girl interested in them. It could be said that nobody likes dating. Sometimes you just want to meet someone and take them back to your place for a late night rendezvous. But for men the dating game is like a shark pool. It's like being thrown in to the lions den with fresh gazelle blood all over you.
Guys have always known that women test men on dates. Guys try their best to prepare for these test but they cannot always tell when they will come. A guy's manhood will be tested; he will be asked various questions to see if he is worthy, and he will be watched closely for any sign or flaws that might be a deal breaker.
So how do you deal with the harsh realities of the dating world when it comes to women?
How can you know what tests you'll be put through and how to deal with them? Here are some ways to help you know when you're being tested and how you can respond to these tests that women give guys.
Testing you for courteousness:
You often hear that women want a man to be courteous and respectful. They want a man to pull out chairs, pay for dinner and open doors. If a man doesn't do this he is considered to be insensitive and would probably not make a good boyfriend. So what a man can do to ensure that a woman does not see him this way is perform the basic courtesies but not go overboard with it.
Seeing if he takes charge:
Women would often test a man to see if he has the ability to take charge in a situation.
Often the woman will ask the man where they will be going for dinner that night and what else they'll be doing that night. If the man acts like he is uncertain or puts it in the woman's hands to decide, then she will see him as not having the ability to take charge.
So remember when you go out with a woman, do not be afraid to take charge and lead the way.
Seeing if he can stand up to her:
A lot of women are used to dealing with guys who have no backbone, they find it refreshing when a guy can actually have enough nerve to speak up to them and say no once in a while. A guy doesn't have to be a jerk to say no to a woman. Just don't be disrespectful about it. Women will appreciate your genuineness; they'll see you as having the nerve to be different from the kind of guys they're used to dealing with. So remember, don't be afraid to stand up to a woman and say no every once in a while.
No matter what you do, women will keep on testing you throughout the duration of the relationship. They have to know that the man that they're dealing with is truly a man and will be able to stand up for them if the situation calls for. Sometimes these tests will be silly child's games that you don't have to stand for, if you fear that you're being tested in this way then don't hesitate to stop dating the woman.