Get ex Boyfriend Back – How to Win Him Back

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The fight you had you singing the blues. Now all you want to do is get ex boyfriend back correct? When women come to me with a broken heart, the first question they ask is, "how do I get my man back?" Some women are a little more strait-forward with, "I need you to tell me how to get my man back." How can you mend a broken heart? Find out below.

Figure out what happened.

It is probably painfully evident what caused the relationship to fall apart. Nevertheless, you will have to have a hard look in the mirror to identify any other issues, before you can attempt any making up. You will need to start by asking yourself some fundamental questions about the things that seemed to annoy him before the breakup. Some of the more obvious issues may include jealousy, and regardless of any harmless activity on your part, you will need to address this.The amount of quality time that you have spent with him could also be a major problem. While these problems are the most common, they are by no means the only problems that may have led up to the separation between you. After that, you need to make the necessary changes that will prevent the same problems later on.

Remind him why he fell in love with you.

Can you remember the first time that you met him, and what it was that attracted him to you? Center you conversations with him around to sort of things that you both enjoyed as a couple. These are some of the questions you will need to ask yourself before you try to make up with him. The next step involves getting the guy to talk to you in a quiet setting that is without interruption. When the time is right , be open and honest about the things that you will change that caused the relationship to end, and then shift to the things that both of you really enjoy about each other when you are together.

Don't dwell on the negative.

After you have broken the ice and begin to engage him with pleasant conversation you will want to keep everything optimistic. Focus your attention on all the positive attributes in your relationship, if you and he like to go out dancing, mention it. You need to reminisce about the intimate time spent together, and other things that drew him close to you. The idea for you is to get him to focus with you on the things he will miss by breaking up with you. Lastly, if you want him to feel the same way you do, you will have to give him some time to think about it.

You will eventually get ex boyfriend back after a day or two, if you've done everything right. Additionally, you can apply what you have learned to a friend who finds herself in the same situation crying "I want to get my man back." The good news for you, if you ever find yourself asking the question of, how to get my man back, is that now know how to do it.

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Betty Dawson is fond of writing articles on her spare time. She tackles things like marriage, relationships, dating, love and more. She likes to play the golf on weekends.

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This article was published on 2010/09/14
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