One thing for sure, a cheating man can only hide his adulterous affairs as long as he can hold it. But, did you know that the longer he hides them, the higher the chances of being caught? For you to do that, you’ll need to know the ten most obvious signs of a cheating man. Although they aren’t definitive but if the man of your life is showing two or more of these signs, then maybe it’s about time to open your eyes, look beyond your nose and take a closer look.
He spends less time with you. If your man is seeing another woman, then naturally, he won’t be spending the same time as he used to be. Expect lame excuses like emergency meetings, own of town official business functions, evening dinners, etc.
He seems detached. Since you’re no longer the focus of his attention but rather the “other woman,” your sex life has gradually deteriorated to the point of being considered as non-existent! Also, he doesn’t hold your hand anymore, cuddle or worst refuse to watch a movie together.
He got a new look. Well, he needs to be as attractive as possible, and he starts to change his look, hairstyle, going to spa, become a gym freak and buy new clothes.
Something’s different inside the car. You start noticing unusual hairs on the car set, unknown perfume scent, passenger seat moved or suddenly, the radio dial has been set to a different station. This is one obvious sign of a cheating man.
Infidelity equals guilt feelings resulting to being short-tempered. He’s being moody or talk about anything with no apparent reasons.
Then there’s the unusual scent of perfume, alcohol or smoke. You can pretty smell it, especially if you pay him a surprise visit.
Change of behavior. Obviously, he doesn’t want you to know about his affair, and so he makes it a point that he hides it as best as he can. He becomes very defensive about that side of his life. As a rebuttal, he will accuse you of being insecure, nosey and dominant.
Call changes. Evidently, he can’t answer phone calls when you’re with him nor leave the phone open because his “other woman” might call him suddenly. If you have access to his phone bills, examine it carefully and look for repeated numbers, and those midnight calls that seem to creep up too often while you’re having your beauty rest.
He simply can’t get enough with the computer and spends so much time chatting with unknown friends. If he deliberately closes the door because he doesn’t want you to see what he’s been up to, then probably he’s having an online affair with a few prospects.
Is he always broke? He could be spending his money to his other woman. If you have access to his bills, stubs or receipts the better. Check for withdrawal inconsistencies. This is yet another obvious sign of a cheating man.